2. Everyone is nervous, push yourself to get out of your comfort zone!
"You have to pick the places you don't walk away from." The first vivid memory I have at Western is walking up UC Hill alone. I was nervous, I had come to Western with a group of friends but sought to branch out into Greek Life. I didn’t know anyone going through recruitment and as I walked up that hill alone I remember thinking I could easily walk back to my dorm and hang out with my friends. I am now in my third year and I meet girls who went through recruitment in second and third year because they were too nervous to do it first and the one consistent comment they make is "I can't believe I didn’t do it sooner." Whether in first, second, third, or fourth year, just remember that all the ladies you have yet to meet were in your footsteps at one point! Step out of your comfort zone and you definitely won't regret it. It's never too early or too late, but making the decision to push yourself is a rewarding one.
3. Smile! Smile! Smile!
Be positive! Don't be too cool to talk to people whether they are girls who are going through recruitment as well or the ladies you will be meeting in each house. Engage in all positive conversations and start them because you never know who you might meet! Don't be 'too cool for it,' set the tone by putting your best self forward.
4. Leave your stereotypes at the door!
Be open minded! Through the recruitment process it will be fascinating to meet all kinds of girls, some that you expected and others that will surprise you for the better! Don't let misconceptions rule your recruitment process! Be kind and make meaningful conversation with everyone. Going into each house with an open mind will help you with this! Ignore house reputations or what your friends are saying and choose the one that is best for you. Listen to your gut and heart!
5. Talk yourself up!
We want to hear about how great you are because we are going to do the exact same in return! If you're shy this is a great time to come out of your shell. Not only do you meet many people while rushing but it also teaches you valuable life skills in terms of being able to sell yourself in 30 seconds and being able to talk to everyone.
6. HAVE FUN
This is a great opportunity to meet new people and develop valuable communication skills. The women I have had the chance to meet are some of the smartest, kindest and well-rounded women I have ever met and I am so lucky to call them my Panhel and sorority sisters! Embrace the experience and enjoy every moment!